The Estrangement Session
Understand the patterns THAT DRIVE A distance between parents and adult children — before THEY become permanent.
Join this live two-hour Zoom SESSION LED BY Lisane Basquiat
april 26 | 4:00 PM PT | Tickets $109
Led by Lisane Basquiat | Board-Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Certified Professional Coach with 20+ years experience.
half of US adults
are currently
estranged
from someone they were once close to.
Most never saw it coming.
Most didn't decide to let it happen.
The distance in your family has a pattern. It's been running longer than the silence has. And until you can see it, you'll keep arguing about behavior while the pattern keeps shaping the outcome.
Estrangement doesn't start with silence.
It starts with interpreting THE meaning each side assigns to the same moment.
Two generations. One interaction.
Two completely different experiences of what just happened.
join me for this session about the pattern underneath the conflict & HOW TO RESOLVE IT
This focused two-hour awareness session is not therapy, not a debate, not a communication skills class
It’s structured pattern mapping in a safe space.
I designed it for parents who feel shut out AND adult children who feel unseen
Together we’ll create clarity needed for repair.
“This workshop
really left an
indelible mark
on my heart.”
–Shanae S.
What You Will
Leave With
One recurring conflict pattern mapped
The emotional rule driving it, identified
An understanding of when old meaning enters new moments
Clarity about what must be understood before the relationship can move forward
The ability to make relationship decisions from clarity, not inherited or reactive patterns
Who This Is For
A parent who —
Feels confused, hurt, or shut out by an adult child
Doesn't understand what changed or why the distance keeps growing
Wants to understand — not just fix or be right
An adult child who —
Feels unseen, unheard, or emotionally exhausted by the relationship
Senses the distance growing and isn't sure what's actually driving it
Wants clarity before making any permanent decisions
Anyone who —
Is repeating the same conversations with no resolution
Senses the relationship is slipping and wants to understand why
Wants to make relationship decisions from clarity, not reactivity
What Participants Are Saying…
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"I have been navigating some family dynamic changes and this has been the best support."
Shanae S.
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"This was an eye-opening session for me. Lisane was a wonderful facilitator who helped me see the motivations behind my patterns - without fault or blame."
Tamina M.
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"Lisane has such a strong command of her work, you can feel the years of study, lived experience, and professional insight behind everything she shares."
Kara S.
LISANE’S APPEARANCES INCLUDE:
I founded Shaping Freedom in 2017 around one central idea: the patterns driving conflict, distance, and disconnection in your relationships can be seen, named, and interrupted.
I created the Legacy Pattern Model to make that systematic. I've guided hundreds of people through that process, in workshops, in organizations, and through the Shaping Freedom podcast.
As a Board-Certified Master Practitioner and Teacher of NLP, a certified coach since 2004, and a former corporate executive with nearly thirty years of experience at organizations including Prudential and American Express, my work draws on neuroscience, family systems theory, and organizational change management.
The work is structured, grounded, and built on decades of practice.
— Lisane Basquiat
